Path: reader2.panix.com!reader1.panix.com!panix!bloom-beacon.mit.edu!npeer.de.kpn-eurorings.net!fu-berlin.de!uni-berlin.de!63-226-101-146.slkc.qwest.NET!not-for-mail Message-ID: From: "K" Newsgroups: soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm.femdom,soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm Subject: {INFO} Books Date: Mon, 1 Dec 2003 05:24:22 -0700 Lines: 328 NNTP-Posting-Host: 63-226-101-146.slkc.qwest.net (63.226.101.146) X-Trace: news.uni-berlin.de 1070281461 63888384 63.226.101.146 ([215004]) X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Newsreader: Microsoft Outlook Express 6.00.2800.1158 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V6.00.2800.1165 Xref: dougal.mew.co.uk soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm.femdom:18671 soc.subculture.bondage-bdsm:118138 In no particular order and I have no affiliation with any of them. Last updated in Oct. Alot of thanks going out to Todd H. for all the great help he gave me in updating this list! If you have ANY suggestions, comments or notice something needs pruning, please get in touch with me via email. I post this to quite a few newsgroups and don't have the time to to tend to them all. Thanks! karinthiaroseTHORN@hotmail.com (remove the thorn) BEGINNERS: SM 101, A Realistic Introduction, 2nd Edition, 1996 Jay J. Wiseman, Greenery Press (ISBN 0-9739763-8-9) Screw the roses, send me the thorns, Phillip Miller and Molly Devon, Mystic Rose Books (1995, ISBN 0-9645960-0-8) The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy, 2001, Greenery Press, ISBN 1-890159-35-2 The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook For Nervous Beginners,Lady Green,Greenery Press Consensual Sadomasochism: How to Talk about it & How to do it Safely, Henkin & Holiday, ISBN 1-881943-12-7 On the Safe Edge: A Manual for SM Play, ISBN 1-895857-05-8 When Someone You Love is Kinky, (Easton & Lizst, 2000) Greenery Press, ISBN 1-890159-23-9 Coming to Power, SAMOIS (named for the estate of Anne-Marie from Story of O), ISBN 0-932870-28-7 (1981, 1987) Alyson Publications , The information in this book is priceless to both novices and experienced practitioners. Coming to Power called The Second Coming by Pat Califia & Robin Sweeney, Alyson Pubs, 1996, ISBN 1555832814. Among other things, it has some great essays about the history of some women's SM groups across the US. The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, Cathy Winks & Anne Semans, Cleis Press. (Third edition, 2002, Cleis Press, ISBN 1-57344-158-9) Is a well recommended guide to sexuality. Its 18 chapters include one on BDSM,which is reported to be quite good (the chapter that is; we already *know* that BDSM is quite good). Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples (2nd Edition), Pat Califia-Rice, (2002, Cleis Press, ISBN 1-57344-230-9) An honest and supportive guide for the novice into the realm of dominant/submissive sexuality, with explanations of technique and terminology. On the safe edge, Trevor Jacques, WholeSM Publishing, A systematic guide for novices that has the feel of an SM textbook. The Bisexual Resource Guide, edited by Robin Ochs, Bisexual Resource Center, ISBN 0-9653881-2-3 The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy, 2003, Greenery Press, ISBN 1-890159-36-0 The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook For Nervous Beginners, Lady Green, Greenery Press (1994, ISBN 9-780963-97630-7-50995) BONDAGE: Jay Wiseman's Erotic Bondage Handbook, Jay Wiseman, Greenery Press, (2000, ISBN 1-980159-13-1) D/s: To Love, To Obey, To Serve, Vi Johnson, Mystic Rose Books, Excerpts from the journal of a long-term lifestyle slave. John Warren's The Loving Dominant, John Warren, Greenery Press (2000, ISBN 890159-20-4) Erotic Power: An Exploration of Dominance and Submission, Gini Graham Scott,PhD, Citadel Press. This is a sociological treatise and in-depth exploration of the physical as well as the psychological dynamics of D&S. The author functioned both as an observer and as a participant in the scene. The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella and edited compilation of his writings on erotic dominance. ISBN 1-881943-03-8 Published by Daedalus Publishing Company Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships, Jack Rinella, 2003, Greenery Press, ISBN 1-890159-52-2 FISTING AND ANAL PLY: Trust: The Hand Book, by Bert Herrman, Alamo Square Press, fisting The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women, Tristan Taormino, Cleis Press (1998, ISBN 1-57344-028-0) A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting, Deborah Addington, Greenery Press (1997, ISBN 0-890159-02-6) Anal Pleasure & Health: a guide for men and women by Jack Morin, Ph.D. ISBN 0-940208-Copyright 1981, Second Revised Edition (c) 1986 HEALTH: Health Care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers, Charles Moser, Ph.D., M.D., Greenery Press (1999, ISBN 0-890159-12-3) Sex Over 40, Saul Rosenthal, 1987, Putnam, ISBN: 0-87477-495-0 HISTORY: Encyclopedia of Unusual Sex Practices, Brenda Love, Barricade Books, 1994, ISBN 1569800111. This book lists a huge number of unusual sex practices, fetishes, etc. HOW TO: The Bullwhip Book, Andrew Conway, Greenery Press (2000, ISBN 1-890159-18-2) The Illustrated Encyclopedia of Essential Oils, Julia Lawless, Element Books, playing with irritants and essential oils The Morrow Guide to Knots, by Mario Bigon and Guido Regazzoni; William Morrow and Co,ISBN 0-688-01226-4 The Klutz Book of Knots, by John Cassidy; 1985, Klutz Press, ISBN 0-932592-10-4 http://www.klutz.com Ashley Book of Knots, Clifford W. Ashley, Faber and Faber, London & Boston Whips and Whipmaking: With a Practical Introduction to Braiding, David Morgan, Cornell Maritime Press KinkyCrafts. 101 Do-It-Yourself S/M Toys, Lady Green, Greenery Press, (1998, ISBN 0-9739763-7-0) Juice: Electricity for Pleasure and Pain, Uncle Abdul, Greenery Press The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment, by Hardy Haberman & Fetish Diva Midori (2001, Greenery Press, ISBN 1-890159-34-4) Learning the ropes, Race Bannon, ISBN 1-881943-07-0 (1992) Daedalus Publishing Co, A basic guide to safe and fun S/M lovemaking. This brief volume explains how partners can explore their dominant and submissive S/M fantasies in a safe and fun manner The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, by Midori, Craig Morey (2001, ISBN 1-890159-38-7) The Art of Sensual Female Dominance: A Guide for Women, by Claudia Varrin, Cynthia Lechan The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance, by Lorelei, (2000, Greenery Press, ISBN 1-890159-19-0) Leatherfolk, edited by Mark Thompson , ISBN 1555836305, published in 2001 Alyson Publishers, 28 articles on what it's like to live and play with erotic power. Covers the development of radical sexuality by decades, starting in the1940's The Leatherman's Handbook 2, Larry Townsend , ISBN 0-503-09999-6 (1989) Carlyle Communications, A leather classic, with chapters on the technique and psychology of doing SM. Written from a gay male perspective, it does not include specific information about women. Books on Knots by Martin Combs http://www.angelfire.com/ak/skateworld/index.html PhoneSex by Miranda Austin available at greenery press The Corporal Punishment of Schoolgirls by Margaret Stone (lots of > facts and figures - it's a documentary survey, with some anecdotes) available from http://www.aks-books.co.uk/ The Compleat Spanker by Lady Green, 1996, Greenery Press, ISBN 0-890159-00-X Flogging, Joseph Bean, Greenery Press, 2000, ISBN 1-890159-27-1 Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual, Christina Abernathy, 1996, Greenery Press, ISBN 9-9639763-9-7 LESBIAN AND GAY ORIENTED: Lesbian S/M Safety Manual, edited by Pat Califia, ISBN 1-55583-301-2 1988 Alyson Publishers Leathersex, Joseph W. Bean, ISBN 1-881943-05-4 (1994) Daedalus Publishing Co, \ A Guide for the Curious Outsider and The Serious Player\ . Lots of good information about Leathersex and the gay male leather scene and play MISC: Urban Aboriginals, Geoff Mains, ISBN 0-917342-38-0 Gay Sunshine Press , This lyrical exploration of SM and leather popularized the idea of an endorphin high. One of the first books to take SM seriously as a spiritual journey. Ties that bind, Guy Baldwin, M.S, 1993 Published by Daedalus Publishing Company Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex, Pat Califia, Cleis Press The Ethical Slut: a guide to infinite sexual possibilities, Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt, Greenery Press (1997, ISBN 0-890159-01-8) Different Loving, G. Brame, W. Brame & J. Jacobs, ISBN 1-679-40873-8 (1993) Villard Books Beneath The Skins, The New Spirit and Politics of the Kink Community by Ivo Dominquez. 1994. ISBN 1-881943-06-2.Published by Daedalus Publishing Company, Pain and Passion: A Psychoanalyst Explores the World of S&M by Robert J. Stoller 1991, Plenum Press, ISBN 0-306-43770-8 Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex by Pat Califia 1994: Cleis Press ISBN 0-939416-88-3 (hardcover) 0-939416-89-1 (paperback) Bound to be Free: The SM Experience, by Charles Moser and J.J. Madeson, 1998, Continuum,ISBN: 0-8264-1047-2 Against Sadomasochism: A Radical Feminist Analysis, edited by Robin Ruth Linden, Darlene R.Pagano, Diana E.H. Russell, Susan Leigh Star Frog In The Well Press, P.O. Box 170052, San Francisco, CA 94117 copyright 1982 PSYCHOTROPEDIA: a guide to publications on the periphery, edited by Russ Kick, ISBN 1-900486-03-2 Phone Sex, by Miranda Austin; Greenery Press, 2002, ISBN 1-890159-48-4. "It is funny, witty, and a wealth of information about the world of phone sex, what to expect when you call and other sorts of things. You truly won't want to miss the stories about panties, incredible shrinking folks, etc.." The Guide to Getting it On by PaulJoannides, Daerick Gross (Illustrator) Publisher: Goofy Foot Press; 3rd edition (February 2000) ISBN: 1885535104 Big Big Love: A Sourcebook for People of Size and Those Who Love Them, Greenery Press, 2000. ISBN 1890159166. COMPANIES TO TRY FOR KINKY BOOKS: Diversified Services P.O. Box 35737 Brighton, MA 02135 Phone: 617-787-7426 Email: MENTOR@BDSBBS.COM WWW: www.diversifiedservices.biz QSM P.O. Box 880154 San Francisco, CA 94188 Phone: 800-537-5815 Fax: 415-550-7117 WWW: http://www.qualitysm.com Blowfish (415) 285-6064 (voice); (415) 282-1618 (fax) info@blowfish.com http://www.blowfish.com/ Circlet Press circlet-info@circlet.com http://www.circlet.com 1770 Massachusetts Ave #278 / Cambridge, MA 02138 Good Vibrations (415) 974-8990 1-800-289-8423 goodvibe@well.com http://www.goodvibes.com Greenery Press: 1447 Park Ave., Emeryville, CA 94608. http://www.greenerypress.com/ 1-888-944-4434 The Stockroom URL: http://www.stockroom.com The Pink Flamingo: URL: www.pinkflamingo.com/ For a printed directory to all kinds of BDSM businesses, organizations, and resources (as well as other sex-positive resources for all for various types of sexualities and lifestyles), look in "The Black Book" The Black Book, 5th edition, 1999. ISBN 0-9637401-5-6 Edited by Bill Brent. Published by Black Books. Black Books P.O. Box 31155 San Francisco, CA 94131-0155 Phone: 415-431-0173 or 1-800-818-8823 / Fax: 415-431-0172 / Email: order@blackbooks.com / URL: http://www.queernet.org/BlackBooks